Sometimes quitting something is important to success. How do we know when to quit?
We’ve probably heard that “quitting” is like “giving up,” but that’s not always the case, perhaps “quitting” something is more effective than letting it all go. For example, “quitting” with someone you know in your heart that doesn’t love you enough, “quitting” on an unlikely project, etc. In some cases, we shouldn’t try to waste time solving problems that are impossible. solve We should know when we should “quit” people who don’t quit because they don’t want to admit defeat. But letting things go on without knowing what to do, even if your instinct tells you to stop but not stopping may be less effective than deciding to quit.
Knowing when is the right time to quit It’s a learnable skill. Here’s what we should “quit” doing.
1. Quit doubting yourself.
Hewlett-Packard Company Researched and discovered that women will only offer themselves promotion if they can meet 100% of the requirements, while men will offer themselves up for promotion only if they have achieved 60% of the requirements. It is part of the fact that the top executives are more men. Maybe it’s just your confidence that will take you to the next level. You have to believe in yourself and stop questioning your own abilities.
2. Quit putting things off
Change is not easy. Self-development is not easy. It takes effort and determination to accomplish it. When things get difficult, it’s easier to decide to face them the next day. But when will the next day come? The fact that you tell yourself to do it tomorrow is just an excuse. You really don’t want to do it. Or you just want the effect but don’t want to try to make it happen.
3. Quit thinking you have no choice.
You always have a choice. Even though sometimes you feel that whichever way you choose, there will be losses. But it’s still an option. Feeling like you have no choice is like giving up or empowering yourself to someone else. You should stop thinking like that. And know that we all have choices all the time. We just need to use our judgment and choose the best we can.
4. Quit doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
Albert Einstein said that only crazy people would do the same thing and expect a different result. If you keep doing the same thing no matter how hard you try, you’ll never have a different result. If you want a different result, you’ll need to change your approach.
5. Quit thinking everything is going to work out on its own.
It’s easy to think that everything is fine. But you really have to make it happen. Don’t wait for your boss to see that you’re ready to be promoted. Don’t assume that coworkers won’t take advantage of you if you let them do it. Everything doesn’t always resolve on its own. You are responsible for making it happen.
6. Know how to deny it when you have to say yes.
When you say “yes” to something, Say no to something else, such as agreeing to hang out with your girlfriend. is to say no to spending time with your parents or siblings, for example. Research from UCSF says that if you’re the one who dares to say no. You will have the opportunity to be easily stressed. Tired of the easy life and easily depressed or depressed rejection for many But you should learn to reject something in order to spend more time on other valuable things in your life.