There was a little boy whose expression was not very good.
So his father gave him a bag of nails and told him
“Every time he feels grumpy or angry at someone, drives a nail into the fence at the back of the house.”
On the first day, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence and slowly dwindled.
With the passing day, the number went down less and less because he felt that Knowing to keep your emotions calm
Much easier than hammering a nail. And then the little boy found
After he was able to control himself better, he became more patient. So he went to meet with his father.
And told his father that he was able to control his emotions
Not as reckless as before
The father smiled and said to his son,
“If that’s the case, you have to prove it to your father, so every time you can control your mood, always remove one nail from the backyard fence.”
day after day The little boy slowly removed the nails one by one, from 1 to 2, from 2 to 3, until all the nails were finally withdrawn.
The little boy was very happy and rushed to tell his father, “I did. I finally did.”
Dad didn’t say anything But took his son’s hand out to the back of the house fence And told the children that
“Well done, my son, and you look back at those fences.” The fence is not the same Not as it used to be “
Whenever you do something using emotion That thing will happen as a result.
It’s like taking a broken knife to someone, even if you use the saying “sorry” a few times.
Cannot erase the exaggeration that happened to that person
But children, always practice using the word “sorry”.
Whether he forgave us or not And keep in mind that The cracks made to him May not be able to erase it forever
Regardless of who we are going to add to the nail mark, or who will add the nail mark for us (both the intended purpose and the way that the mood brings)
There are three things in this world that, once passed, you cannot retrieve them:
“Words”, “time” and “opportunity”
Friends are like The precious gems that are rare are the ones that make us smile. Is a person who encourages
And be happy when we find success It is someone who consolers our hearts when we are sad and share our happiness with us. And always be sincere with us
Show him How much we care about him
The most important thing is Know your anger as quickly as possible. Immediately .. at consciousness Hurry and let go of your anger
At least it will stop hammering others, putting our beliefs in ourselves that we are right.
It’s the starting point for better solutions. Better than allowing ourselves to hold on to that we are well received until the end of our self-destruction.
Hopefully this story will help us to stay together, work together, and feel better and more together forever.