Have you ever heard of it? Some of them are young. But with an adult mentality But some adults Still have a boyish mindset
What kind of thinking method is not growing up? What kind is called an adult?
We’ve rounded up five ways of thinking that will help you become a happier, happier adult.
Take a look at what level of thinking you are at, if you have level 1, you have a chance to improve further.
- Look far
Level 1: Endurance
When we look far See the future of the present that is doing Know that if you have patience, you will be fine Know that withholding will pass well
Such as being patient with exhaustion knowing that it will be difficult Finally comfortable later Withholding not hurting others, knowing that in the end
We will not feel guilty. Or hold back with temporary comfort In order to receive long-term happiness later
Like being patient, saving money Earn extra money In order to pay off the debt quickly or
Patience not playing social media at work Will be able to work, deliver on time and go home quickly, etc.
Level 2: You can think of it.
When we kissed it, we were often impulsive. But if we think about it, when we can get a better understanding of life.
For example, we know what we intend to read a textbook for. What are you going to exercise for? Why do you have discipline? Diligent work and responsibility for what?
Know when to work or study To have more time to rest and play And what opportunity will we lose? If we do not act immediately
As well as understand the nature of life that is like the seasons of misery and happiness circulating Nothing lasts or lasts When you understand life more It will be easier for us to let go.
And accept more situations that come through Do not stick to anything for a long time. Because he knew that another moment would pass
Level 3: able to target
When we start to think about the future And ask myself What are we for? If we don’t have any goals We will dare to judge for ourselves more easily.
Start setting life goals out of the Comfort Zone to transform yourself, improve yourself, do the things you don’t do, and make your dreams come true.
- Generous
Level 1: Learnable
If we open our hearts We will have a lot of space to open up to new things because we understand that there is little knowledge in us. Like half a glass of water
With more and more days to fill Ready to learn various stories With a free-minded heart, more open-minded, more interested in reading, likes to develop oneself
And learn how to change our behavior or adjust our way of thinking For a more peaceful life and find happiness Because there is a belief that
People can change. Just give yourself the opportunity to change.
Level 2: Acceptable
Accepting the truth Making us free and able to move on Able to accept who they are Be honest with your feelings Be yourself
And accept the differences of each other Accepting other people’s opinions Don’t judge others if they don’t know them well enough. Will make us satisfied in our own life And understand more people
For example, if you are heartbroken and admit that That person is not our real partner. Will open up faster to wait for the right person
Level 3: forgiving
Self forgiveness Freeing us from our guilt and being ready to be a better person And forgiving others Will make us more accepting of who he is
And freedom from frustrations or blaming others, and it can also drive us to have a better life as well.
Although relationships may not be the same, at least they will no longer hold us attached to the past.
- Think positively
Level 1: Thank you.
When we think positively Will be grateful for what we have Thank you for the opportunity Thank you for good things That others have given The world inside the heart has changed. Look more fortunate
And when thankful, it becomes a habit to feel self-sufficient, satisfied, to be proud of yourself. Believe and have confidence in yourself And have more happiness
Level 2: can focus
When we know what is good and bad, we choose to focus on the good, see more of the good in ourselves, and reveal the good in ourselves. As well as better focus on the positive on others
See other people’s strengths Look beyond the disadvantages of other people. Or if it is a job There are challenges.
Can focus on the work to pass as well Rather than focusing on the negative, weakening the mind to slow down.
Level 3: reversible
In a bad situation Be able to see the opportunities hidden in it, believe that the challenges will make us better.
And stronger and faster to cope with problems and obstacles Because the heart is always ready to change
Despite suffering coming through Did not suffer for a long time Because he knew it was like the last season had passed
- Flexible
Level 1: adjustable plan
There are two, three, or at least plans that can be modified. Not tight
Until unable to change anything Because planning is forward thinking Can predict future events that If we do this What is the result?
But we cannot predict that it will happen, of course, and not all. All that you want. Therefore unable to control everything
Level 2: adaptable
Act like water That can be adjusted according to the condition of the container is accessible in every situation. But without losing one’s own identity
Is like a tree that can follow the force of the wind. But it can come back upright as before, so what we have to do when we have planned it is
Believe that we will be able to cope, manage it, no matter the situation
Level 3: Faceable.
Able to face problems, obstacles and challenges No matter what format
Lots of work, heavy work, hard work, we can handle it. Because they believe in their own abilities
- Let it go
Level 1: Waiting
If we have done Fully The rest is just let go. We have no control over the outcome. But manageable
Most children do not understand the word “let go”. Because they tend to be in a hot mood to see results immediately But the tree cannot grow and grow in one day.
Condominiums cannot be built in one day. Therefore must know how to wait And have fun on the way
Level 2: evenly possible
For example, if you are not in good shape, you have to work hard to build your muscles to stay fit and strong Which can not be done in a single day, must do it regularly or if we are less good at anything
It’s not a matter of talent, it’s about consistency in repetitive training, which should be practiced with a feeling of good happiness, not speeding up the night. To make it up to the desired date
Level 3: Trustable
Believe that it will be possible in the end Believe that each person has a different rhythm in life. If we let it be We will be happy to live in the present and be sure that
The outcome, no matter what it is, is good and good. Show that the challenge will train us to modify something.
In order to produce truly good results, people’s thoughts can always change for the good.
If using appropriate methods Try writing a journal in your diary to see what you think of yourself.
In what way do you look at others? Or learn something from today’s events It is clearly noticeable that there is a more mature mindset.
But this must be a positive note, write thank you.
Because it will train us to be able to think Learn life And turn the mind into a positive
Even if children feel that they do not grow up to be adults We have to be responsible for many things, but being adults gives us freedom of thought.
You can choose to do what you want to do, but you must never forget that Will also be responsible for the actions we choose. If we think like an adult Even if we are in any situation
Can pass as well So what are you afraid of being an adult? If we have a good way of thinking